Hi everyone,
We all know that Back to School (BTS) season is upon us. And someone somewhere, actually a lot of people are already back at school. I have 10 days (!!!) left of my summer vacation and I am relishing it. Maybe we can add 10 or 200 days more? But of course, that first day is slowly or not so slowly approaching and along with it come questions, jitters and plain old new-year anxiety. I always feel that the new year doesn't start January 1st, but rather on the first day of school. I approach back to school the way people approach the new year, with the "New Year, New Me" mentally. I wanted to share with you my tricks of the trade for surviving, and hopefully thriving the new school year.
1.
Pick up that one little piece of clutter
I always find that I can keep my room clean as long as I put everything away. Sound simple, right? Wrong! Its so easy to say, paint my nails and then leave the towel (yes, I paint my nails on a ratty towel!), nail polish and top coat on my desk and tell myself that I will pick it up later. Yeah right! Later as in next Tuesday. I always find that one i leave that little mess, other little messes just start to pile up. Some coupons there, a pool bag there, an empty water bottle or juice can in the corner. It all adds up! So, long story short, pick up your little messes. It only takes a couple of minutes now instead of a couple hours and a complete room overhaul later.
2.
Use an agenda
I know that just about everyone says it, but it really is true! Get an agenda of sorts, or a calendar. Digital or good old fashioned paper, we all need to keep track of our stuff. Dates can so easily be forgotten, homework and projects can go out the window if we don't have a place to write them down and remind ourselves of them.
3.
Be a tree
Okay, okay, don't really
be a tree, but brach out! Discover something totally new to you. My freshmen year of high school, I joined my school's debate team. My mom really wanted me to try it out but I was pretty sure it would be dumb and I would hate it. But, I got a friend to try it with me and we went to the first practice. And, truth be told, it was so much fun! (Life lesson number 203: Listen to Your Mother) I made so many friends within my own school of other and the same grade as I was, and I met people from other schools, and throughout the state even. Some I keep in touch with regularly, or even on a daily basis.
4.
Ask for help
No one thinks any different of you if you raise your hand and ask a question. To be honest, its your grades and your education at stake, and not theirs. If you don't understand, advocate for yourself. Teachers think the most highly of students who practice this behavior. If you need more help, ( I did this a lot with math) ask if you can go in early or at lunch to get more help. If you are writing a paper and the teacher says you can turn in drafts for editing to them, do it! If they are offering their time and energy, take it. Don't just ask teachers, ask other students. My friend and I used to FaceTime or go to Starbucks before a big test to quiz and help each other.
XOXO, The Oldest CC